PART 3: IRRESPONSIBLE WOMEN: IMPACT ON MEN IN THE CHURCH
Writers Note: It is for sure that many of the problems described in the following statements are wide spread. Therefore, for the record women do not control all of the churches. We also acknowledge that ungodly Preachers are involved in a game of manipulation and control with ungodly women.
relationship of Irresponsible women with ungodly Preachers has impacted greatly
on church memberships. Most Black churches are dominated by women. You would
think women are the only people that are Spiritual when you visit most Black
churches. Vivid examples of the absence of men are readily seen in most church
choirs. Twenty choir members may reveal less than five men.
Why are so many women in the church? Also
why do men that in some cases are married to these women refuse to attend
church services? There are some exceptions; some of these men will attend
selected funerals and certain special functions and probably Father's Day or
Easter services. Meanwhile, they stay at home and watch football, basketball
etc. They also have a negative image of the church, and speak out about ungodly
Preachers and the contemporary money changing.
Is it something in the female psyche
that causes her to have a more Spiritual emotion than men? Do women feel the
need for God more than men? Are some women so lonely that they thrive on a
fantasy love affair with the Black Preacher? What about the married women, will
they convey their love for the Preacher to their husband if he comes to church?
Meanwhile, women usually outnumber
men in the church four to one. Quite naturally if women grossly outnumber men
in the church they will end up running most of the auxiliaries etc. The social
relationships with the Preacher often cause women to have more authority than
even the chairmen of the Deacon Board or any male officer in the church.
Therefore, the positions of men in
the church are often token positions. For example men in positions in the Black
church often really have no power. They usually are manipulated to think they
have power. The women have the power, because as they go about serving and
worshiping the Preacher they eventually take over. The process whereby they
take power can be simply explained. The Preacher is only one man and says for
example there are one hundred women in the church that have the attributes of
concubines and whores. The Preacher is physically unable to service all of
these women, but he gives them concessions. He relinquishes power and authority
to these women as a pay-off for their loyalty. The method of pay-offs and
concessions usually results in the women discreetly and tactfully taking over
Meanwhile, the men, the strong men
that come in and see all this pimping and the strut of female egos, leave. Most
men are able to see through ungodly Preachers. Most men have some sense of
understanding the qualities of a no-good man. Thus, these men view Preachers
that go along with Irresponsible women as con artists, pimps, and hustlers.
Meanwhile, they try to talk some sense into their wives. Many of these families
have serious marital problems because many wives have a love affair with the
Preacher. These women often forsaking the needs of their families also hustle
money for the Preacher and involve themselves in money changing.
Who are the men left in the church?
Thank God that there are some strong men left in the church. Where there is a
majority of strong men (We are not talking about a majority in the church) many
of the problems with Irresponsible women are at a minimum. But Irresponsible
women that are married and attend church with their husbands have broken many
of these men. The negative attitude of the Preachers that thrive on
Irresponsible women seeks an attitude of submission from all members, male and
female. The submission to the domination of the Preacher is an attitude that is
placed on many males in the church. Thus, the Preacher induces many of these
men to give up their manhood and become yes men and not question the activities
of money changing and whoremongering. Ungodly Preachers usually do this by
misinterpreting the Bible and manipulating weak men to believe lies.
Meanwhile, many men in the church get
a double dose of manipulation and mind control. The Preacher and the wives
jointly work to break the man and turn him into a Christian wimp. Therefore, he
often thinks he is in control of his household and has some authority. As a
church officer he also thinks he has some power and authority. But in reality
he is a pawn or puppet that moves when the Preacher and the women say move.
What results from all this nonsense is an absence and defection of men from the church? Preachers often lie about the absence of men in the church. In most cases they only want a few men that they can control because strong men will question the con game of the Black Preacher. Meanwhile, many Preachers go around attacking Islam, and the Million Man March. Islam has a significant number of strong Black men. But Islam did not steal the Black man from the Christian Church. Black Preachers and whores ran the Black man out of the church.
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